Love Bombs

 

Do you know who your are?

You are Love.

When?      there is no later, no next time, no waiting

there is only here and now.

what do i feel Here?   …and Now? …

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if I am willing to feel it fully…

… then i can release it with LOVE,

so i ask, am i willing, …yes?

when??

… how about …Now??

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to be Free we must Love it all.

Why?  Because we resist and then, we suffer.

We know this deep within.

 

So now, choose differently.   Release all.

To receive something different,

first be love.

internally, practice “I love you, i love you…”  thanking the experience, the gift the universe has sent.  then you re-focus on your preference, always maintaining this gratitude for life’s gifts in all forms.

observe (pause). feel (waves). thank (pause). release (flow)…

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observe the ebb, the almost hidden pause, and only then flow…

Fighting this flow will only cause a dam full of power which will sabotage your efforts.  Release…

 

Now, Dare again and be Lofty!

ask, receive (pause) again, feel (waves), give thanks again…

this is the swiftest path to liberation…

it is simple

but, not easy,

it is not easy to release what we would keep and hold

it is not easy to forgive what we would push away, reject

keep doing it

it gets easier… look to the ocean.

thank you, i love you.

(i’m sorry, please forgive me… often helps)

the true self begins to emerge

efforlessly.  stronger.  natural.

with peace and grace,

Each new day…

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God is Good.

All the time, everywhere.

My source and my supply.  The Father and I are One.

.Love, Wisdom, Power.

 ~K. Zalepa, 3/2018

What Do You Believe?

Truth be told-  You don’t get what you want in life, You get what you Believe.

Therefore-   Positive thinking is not the endgame.   Positive Believing (or total Faith) is.

If we believe we are not worthy, we can think and dream of positive things that won’t ever show up.  We are not congruent; we are not in alignment; we are not in flow.

Dig deep to uncover your beliefs.  Examine, excavate, evaluate, stop at nothing.  Intend to uncover the truth of who you really are.  Rather than asking, ‘why?’, ‘why is this happening, why is that happening?, let’s focus on to whom it is happening and what it is exactly that is happening.

Let’s begin a new type of forward moving dialogue.  Let’s begin to ask, ‘Who am I?’, ‘Who exactly is this ‘I’ that runs my show?’, ‘Who is it that thinks, that feels, that moves me?’

A great way to do this is to first examine what/who you are not.  This will pave the way for what you are to rise up into your awareness.  Armed with this understanding, you will then be able and ready to inquire with curiosity and a light heart into the very incredible, beautiful, nature of yourself.

OK, so let us nosh on or ponder if you will, these statements (read aloud):

– I am not this body.  I wear this temporary body.

– I am not these thoughts.  I have these thoughts and those.

– I am not these emotions.  I feel these ever-changing emotions.

– I am not limited by my five limited senses.

Read those again.  Out loud.

to be continued…..

Get ready for the Waves!

Changing ideas, thoughts and beliefs causes turbulence.

That is just a law of nature.   Energy changes forms.

 

As German philosopher Albert Schopenhauer states, “All Truth passes through three stages.  First it is ridiculed [ouch 😥].  Next it is violently opposed [yikes! 😳].  Finally, it is being accepted as self evident.”

Life Coaching vs. Counseling/Therapy

.welcome. 😍

.i am often asked about what life coaching is and how it differs from therapy, so I offer these words…

.life coaching helps move a client forward.  .we align the mind with internal attitudes and then with action steps and accountability to promote growth.

.therapy digs into your past to seek ‘why’ you have blockages to success or health.  the focus is on the past.

.life coaching gently digs inside you to allow you to develop awareness of your current blocks, regardless of why.  the focus is on the present and on how you want to feel now and moving forward.

.counselors/therapist give advice. vs coaches teach you to hear the call of your own highest advice and to empower you to take it!

.life coaches help you trust yourself and foster confidence by facilitating a discovery and gratitude for your own life and your unique voice and true desires. we help you trust and follow your own advice, and gently hold you accountable for the action steps you create.  the goal is to empower and strengthen your self by removing limitating beliefs and blocks, exploring opportunities from challenges, and learning the freedom of choice. this happens because unlike a friend or relative, great life coaches have no personal agenda for your life, no judgment to impose.

.wheverever you are now is where you are meant to be in this moment.  it is part of your personal journey. it is an effect.  it was caused by the thoughts and beliefs (often subconscious) you have been holding dear.

.my question to you is simply-  is your life working for You?

~ success is in living your own joyful dream ~

image.so, are you who you want to be?

.no?  .maybe not?  .not sure?  .ahh, let’s dig deeper…  

what if you knew with absolute certainty that you could be/have/do absolutely anything (without limit) that you could possibly imagine?  

what would that dream be; what would that dream look like??

.explore your soul.  .reach out and let me know what you find.

🙏🏻 .love. ❤️ .light. ✨ .giggles. 😀

Meditate

Talk is cheap…

Meditate…

In Silence…

Repeatedly…

   … I Dare You…

– k.zalepa

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The answers to all your concerns lie within You, not in

– him / her;

– this job / that job;

– this house / that house;

– that accolade / that achievement;

– more $$$ / less $$…

– his approval / her approval.

So, Be brave and Practice going within to find your Truth

If…

You feel goodness…      Simply Meditate …on Gratitude

You feel ugly…    Simply Meditate …on Beauty

You feel sickness…       Simply Meditate …on Vibrant Health

You feel poor…      Simply Meditate …on Wealth

You feel sadness…      Simply Meditate …on Joy!

You feel overwhelm/stress…      Simply Meditate …on Peace ☮

You feel boredom…      Simply Meditate …on Fulfillment

You feel anger…      Simply Meditate …on Happiness

You feel impatience… Simply Meditate …on Patience

You feel scared… Simply Meditate …on Freedom

You feel .. Simply Meditate …on

You feel loneliness…  Simply Meditate …on Love and Connection

You feel apathy…     Simple Meditate …on Passion

You are not your feelings, circumstances or your past

And, You are more than you think.

Your life is a product of your subconscious Beliefs.   Your Emotions fuel those beliefs, your thoughts, your attitudes, and ultimately your experiences in life.   Why?  Because everything is energy and energy creates vibrations which form matter.   Your beliefs are literally creating your physical body, health and your world!

So, Are you willing to examine those deep-seeded, long held beliefs?

Because You are much greater even than these and there is an Infinite Power within You.

Meditate and you will discover the real You behind this smaller you, the real Mind behind this small mind

-only You can allow it to emerge from behind the illusion of false beliefs

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~ we are all connected, we are all one ~

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ENERGY ~ CHANGE ~ LOVE

 Since energy is forever in motion, everything we experience in life on the physical plane is constantly and forever changing.

The only Truth, the only unchanging knowledge and Power, is above and beyond the physical.

This invisible, impersonal, power, which animates and energizes all of ‘life’, is itself the only constant, the only Real force.  Nothing else is real and nothing else exists.

This Power back of all life is omnipresent, omniscient, omnipotent and omnibenevolent.

Omnipresent- everywhere across all space, in all and  thru all

 Omniscient- all knowing beyond time past, present and future

Omnipotent- all powerful beyond comprehension

Omnibenevolent- all loving and life supporting beyond reason

This one and only True Power is Unconditional Love

~ When we forget this Love and get lost in trying to control the worldly concerns,  we suffer ~

These 8 (eight) worldly concerns (4 pairs) that lead to our suffering because they are not real are:

pleasure / pain; loss / gain;  praise / blame;  fame / shame

These concerns change with the wind.   They come and go.  Here one day, gone the next.  Everything has a season.  Only that one Universal Power, the Power of the Unconditional Love is real.  It comes not from us but thru us.  This Love is the calm center in the storm of constant change, upheaval, and renewal.

When we cling to or run from the worldly concerns, we become trapped in the illusion.  Suffering and anxiety are inevitable.

To live in Joy and Freedom is to release ourselves from these concerns and live in the knowledge of Truth – that we are already and always Unconditionally Loved despite all appearances to the contrary.  This Truth and this Knowing must be experienced within us.

Allow yourself to cease looking for proof of your blocks and hurdles, fears and worries, problems and concerns but rather…. Focus and correct your Mind.  The error has been in your thinking all this time.  So with a focus on Knowing and remembering this Truth, this feeling of pure Love…  allow your Faith and Awareness to present itself to you in the form of new eexperiences, opportunities and moments of bliss as they arrive and arise in your consciousness.  Consciousness comes first, physical manifestation comes second.  Not the other way around.

 “Faith (conscious knowing) is the substance (physicalness) of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”

Faith is the evidence.  If you have faith in a thing then you already have it in consciousness and it appears.

Feel what you feel but then let it go because pondering on losses, wallowing in sorrows, feeling victimized – holding these concerns- will never elevate you above them.

Only Love is the power which elevates you.

Yes.  There is love.  In this moment.  Now.  Yes!, though it may be a diamond hidden in a lump of coal or a nugget of gold deep down in an ore under the earth’s surface, it IS there.  It is there simply awaiting your discovery.  It is there under your feet, within your heart, and floating gently in your mind, at all times.

Your greatest life’s work is simply to intend and to focus with faith, and with every fiber of your being, back of all moments, on knowing and remembering this love.  This love is your birth rite.

You deserve this love.  You will accept this love.  You will BE this love.

You will thrive in this love.  You are this love.  You share this love.  

You are growing stronger and more powerful, a force for goodness, creating beauty and love around you.

Keep your Faith alive and stay the course for love and miracles.  Now.  And in each Now to come.

Mantra– ‘I will BE this Love.  I AM this love.  I now pause when I need to and I now create space for my highest self so I can thrive in Love’

Love, light,… and giggles, too,  ~kim

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Why I am a horrible Life Coach

.a great life coach meets you where you are.  .i say, forget your story immediately and let’s move you straight to the top!

.in an attempt to feel better, especially after a set back or failure, many people ( yours truly included) release or give up their desires.  .it can simply hurt too much to feel so separated from one’s dreams and aspirations.  .it’s too great a stretch.

.have You been there?

.have you ever turned your back on your dreams?

.have you given up and settled for whatever sort of just showed up or that which seemed realistic and normal?

.have you tried to mold yourself to fit someone else’s needs, demands, or expectations?

.just a little?  .a tiny bit?  .maybe?

.releasing your desires may have seemed to be the only choice at that time.   .and that may have been necessary.  .at that time.

.but, …is that choice still serving you??

.if you are here – now – reading this – then, …probably not.  .but I am here to tell you the good news—  you can begin again.

.and, there’s a different kind of release:

~ You can Release your Resistance! ~

.understandably, you may be wondering what I mean by that.

.it all begins with AWARENESS…   …what’s your story?…

.what outdated ideas are you clinging to? .what unwritten rules are keeping you in this narrow place? .what beliefs didn’t you ever really agree with anyway?   .what seemed like BS but you followed along anyway?

.write it down.  .get it all out.

.now- drop it, drop it, drop it.  never speak of this story again.

.period.

TRUTH:  the universe supports your beliefs not your wants.

.if you are not living the life of your dreams, the first step is to take a few moments to realize what has been holding you back, for better or worse.    .these are your beliefs.  .this is awareness.

.now we can get to your heart and move forward.  .and change those beliefs.

….what is it that you have forgotten? …what are you resisting? …what do you really, really love, enjoy, cherish, adore in this life?  …what do you want, anyway?  .go ahead and just dream the real dream.  .i won’t tell anyone.  .your (new) story is safe with me.

.really enjoy some quiet moments for this.  .for yourself.

.dream big and bold.

.these questions will automatically begin a change in you.

.this is a new beginning, an opening…

.next, we use your best tool – your imagination – to use these dreams and desires to create the new story of you.   .you need to release it to receive it.

.but how do you stop the negative self-talk?  .how do you make these dreams believable, you ask?

.i am a horrible life coach because i am first and foremost a .spiritual teacher.

.i want to teach you how to make the universe work for you.

.i know the unlimited, unstoppable, infinite being that you are!   .this makes me impatient.  .i don’t want to meet you where you are- your life is NOW!    .i want to lift you right up so you can step into the best and highest version of yourself.  .i am so blessed and excited be a part of your journey!!!

.if you want to learn about the Universal Laws and how to use them to create a new life full of joy, abundance, health and wealth; if you are ready to drop your resistance and begin crafting and sculpting the new story of your life- then visit me at http://www.kimtzalepa.com and let’s begin to uncover your light!

✨ .get ready to shine. ✨

🙏🏻 .love. ❤️ .light. ✨ .giggles. 😀

nourishment

.for body and mind.

.your body needs nourishment in the form of healthy food and movement in order to keep it functioning optimally.
.sometimes we fight against this with too much junk food, alcohol, laziness, etc.  .our bodies are strong and can handle a little unhealthy detour now and then.  .but we also feel the side effects when we overdo it.
.in fact most of the uncomfortable symptoms we may experience are not indications of disease but rather dis-ease or discomfort if you will.  we race to collect our symptoms and label them.
be mindful of this. and stop.  .because our body will listen to these thoughts and fears.  this is big!

.did you know that our thoughts need nourishment, too!?!

.just as we might develop unhealthy habits with our body if we’re not paying attention, we can develop unhealthy thought patterns.
.when we focus on problems and fears, we end up with more problems and experience fears coming true.
.looking for labels and calling a symptom a disease and believing in that will materialize it for sure.

.but is that what we want?  try asking yourself if maybe you’ve gotten into some thinking habits that are not beneficial to your wellbeing.  .sometimes a headache is just a headache.

.the ego-mind wants to be right and wins every time.   Hmmm… yes, if you have thought about it and decided that your headache is a disease, watch out- it will be.

.anger, resentment, fear, jealousy- these thoughts don’t feel good.
.so drop ’em. let. them. go.

.why not try to nourish our ‘bigger-mind’ by letting go of negative attachments and then focusing instead on beneficial solutions.  we can also choose to focus on what is already good and working well in our lives.

.to do this, commit to a practice of cultivating new, better beliefs about yourself and the endless possibilities for your life.  look for the joy.  imagine the love of the entire universe wrapping around you. feel good!

.will you choose an inspired life?!

Are YOU ready for MORE???

What is that- a means to an end???  We’ve all heard it.  But how is it affecting us?

Are you so busy trying to create the means (money, big house, title) to the end that you have completely lost track of the ends that you started out trying to create?

Did you think that those means would get you what you really wanted like freedom, love, joy, friendship and fulfillment?

Did you end up getting excess weight, an overstuffed schedule, back aches, illnesses and migraines instead???

If you have tried and tried and still haven’t created those end goals that you truly desire, If you don’t feel that you are living out loud and enjoying your life to the fullest, you might have confused your real goal-  you could be trapped in a continuous loop of striving for means that will never provide you those experiences that would truly lift you up and allow you to soar.

If you are ready for something more,  you can begin now by taking a few moments to breathe, close your eyes, leave money any time out of it, and then ask yourself three questions:

  1. what do i truly want to experience in my limited time here on earth?
  2. in what ways do i really want to grow?
  3. in what ways do i really want to contribute?

Remember, money and time are no objects!

create any style of list (bullet points, mindmap, visionboard,…) for each question above.

read it every day and when you are ready to move forward – leave me a reply!

Light, Love and Giggles, ~Kim

* three questions – credit goes to MindValley.com for their awesome content *

You are Unique!

There is only one You:

“There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique.  And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open. You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. You have to keep yourself open and aware to the urges that motivate you. Keep the channel open…”

~ Martha Graham, dancer/teacher